This double standard doesn't always apply even in the "real world". If I was found by my family to have been sleeping with several girls, I most certainly would not get a pat on the back. It is this repression that I believe may lead to the "ok to fuck but not to take home to mother" phenomenon - a girl that advertises her virginity and/or does not carry herself in a manner suggesting any trace of sexuality is good for placating one's parents, should they be repressive in this way. This of course raises the question of why someone would be man enough to be having sex but not to go up against his parents, but that's a whole other issue.

Also, let it not be missed that many men with highly active sex lives are known by far less complimentary names than "stud" - for example, "sleaze", "desperado", "man-whore". That is not to say that the double standard is not alive and well, of course. There are plenty of examples of that.

Now Kaelynn, the simple (and somewhat flippant) answer to your question of why these girls think they are better than you is that's the way their value systems work. They believe that everyone should be virgins until some specific point (eg Marriage, relationship lasting x months, etc) and that part of a person's value, more or less, is derived from their adherence to that. Another possibility is that their egos dictate that they must make themselves feel superior in some way and they seize on this "opportunity". Either way, the most important thing is that you feel good about who you are and from what I know about you, you do

Keep enjoying yourself


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