Well...I had a talk w/the other woman. I expressed my feelings for her and she said she felt the same about me. However, she said, she is not ready to give up on her marriage. So we settled on remaining friends.

Obviously that's not the outcome I was looking for, but she is my best friend and I wouldn't want her to do anything she wasn't perfectly comfortable with. Who knows what the future will hold, right? I'll just continue to be the best friend I can be and maybe I'll be able to win her heart some day.

Thanks again to all the fellow pixies who listened....I think just putting my thoughts out here helped me get through this better. You guys are great :-)