Princess......At 19 MOST, (and I say most cause I don't know all men but from the ones I do I say), most men are one great big hormone. I truly don't know if there is a medical or psychological reason for the "lack-a-wanna" thing happening to your boyfriend. It may behoove you to suggest that he seek medical attention as it may be a mild case of depression or a chemical imbalance that has his testosterone level low. I don't mean to suggest that there IS a major problem. There may be NO problem at all for that matter. But if this continues and he shows less and less interest and you want to stay together I am just suggesting that it may be a minor medical problem that can be handled before it becomes a major problem.

As I stated in a response above, my ex had 2 ex's before me and I feel now that maybe I should have questioned them (his ex's) as to if the problem I had with him existed with them as well. You may want to seek an answer from someone your boyfriend dated before you.....just a thought hun!

I am sorry to go on about this as if it were the end of the world but I do feel like something is amiss if......at the blossoming age of 19 your boyfriend has said no to you more than yes. SOMETHING...albeit I can't put my finger on it.....but something is askew in this picture. If he is any kind of man he will probably refuse to seek medical attention (as my man will always refuse till the minor is a major). This shouldn't deter you from telling him you care enough to ask for help.

As to "feeling like such a baby compared to us"........think of it this way.........We here at Pixies range in age....I am gonna say from about 18-60......give or take. We all have different experiences and if one can help another we are glad to do it, no matter what the age of the person asking or recieving the help. You are more mature than you give yourself credit from what I read in this thread.

Good luck hun!!!!

Mrs. Lix

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