yes I do see where your comming from as i was expecting someone to come back and say something about this, but since then my s/o and I have since worked through things she is out of the picture as she is o/seas in Malaysia and living there now.
He has has deleted all emails and contact's that he has of hers and even sent her a goodbye letter as I wrote in my last post in which I attached to my last thread if u cared to read........

So then looloo (please don't feel attacked except for the fact that you brought this thread up from DEEP in the archives and I feel you are still hurting)...

Answer me this...do you have faith and full trust in him now? And...are you keeping with the pregnancy?

I ask because I care...not to put you on the spot!

PM me if necssary!

*hugs*

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~Thomas Dewar~

I flirt all the time, its good humoured and not targeted at sexual relationships. I did not go outside my marriage when it was functional or even for a long time sfter that. When the affection and the sex stopped to a couple of times a year, I very occassionally visited a prostitute. It helped keep my emotions and physical needs in check. I did not do it to cheat but because I was not getting it where I should have been and wanted to.

there are different circumstances where there are shades of grey as well as black and white.

As a rule I dont cybersex these days unless I am particularly close to that person. That means that I feel love for that person. In the last 3 years that has applied to only 2 people.

I have close friendships with a few very attractive pixies ladies, all of whom are in a realtionship. I respect those relationships and support them. I am a romantic at heart and to know two people are in love is wonderful. I have turned down offers from some others and I think I have decent morals.

I have not adjusted to being single and am still coping with the ending of my last realtionship

I'll have to agree with the three S's here:
Steph
Scarlett
& Sharniqua

...cheating starts in the mind. If a person feels the need for gratification elsewhere (i.e. titty bars, cybersex, etc) there MAY be a need to re-assess the value of his (or her) relationship...

...and TALK ABOUT IT to his (or her) partner.


Lorelei,
Although I disagree somewhat with your opinion, please don't excuse yourself from this discussion -everyone's viewpoint matters...

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...do I sound hypocritical by posting that opinion on an adult picture posting site?

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I'm your Huckleberry.

LOL Not at all, incitatus. I introduced my b/f to pixies and he's in the other room putting an IKEA couch together while I surf here.