tshindon,

I know we all came to Pixies looking for something different. Perhaps some of us are not even fully aware of what it is they seek. Let it suffice that Angela was looking for something that she needs and that very apparently is missing from her present life situation. Do NOT reject her needs out of hand because YOU view them to be sins.If I were you, and yes, I do hear the caring in your message, I would focus on what you both need to change to fulfill each other. If you don't, you may very well lose the relationship that you do have.

I wish you both well and pray that you find help navigating the treacherous path ahead. I know from personal experience it is fraught with many dangers and the way is never clear. Good luck.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

I knew you'd be back. You sweetheart are a very insecure person. you need to grow up! Your wife loves you very much and YOU better not hurt her! Hate is an evil thing. you of all people should know this. We don't hate each other here and neither should you. If you haven't figured it out yet , you discovering this site has made you aware of your own shortcomings in your relationship with your wife. You need to learn from this experience and start listening to her. If you would have she probably wouldn't have been here in the first place. She isn't the whore you think she is. She just wanted to be appreciated and loved and paid attention to. All you have done is tried to threaten and scare and humiliate people. Are you proud of that? You married her, you don't OWN her and you have no right to try to control her That my friend is NOT what marriage is all about. We stripped nothin from you. She shared with us, That's all. BTW I don't post my pics all over the internet. This is a PRIVATE site. Members only or I wouldn't be here. Remember .......... the greatest gift is love.
P.S. we forgive you too.

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

I'm so glad that you displayed your anger so nakedly - your evil, fleshly anger - otherwise, I might have to pry that thin veneer of I'll-pray-for-you-dirty-sinners-benevolence off to get at it. Thankyou for saving me the trouble.

Not being similarly encumbered with religion as you are, I say without shame, fuck you and fuck your pompous, presumptous, pious, prejudicial chest thumping and territorial pissing. I will not be shamed for my humanity and the desires that come with it. If you truly believe that there are real people involved here, act like it and start treating your wife like an independant person and not some ornament of your ego. Looking at your wife does not constitute "ravaging" and if you believe it does then you've got some issues, Pastor Jeff.

You and I both know that you wouldn't start a thread without hanging around to read the replies. Now, let us know when you've finished your irrational little e-catharsis (did you forget we're all real people too? *sniffle*), and maybe we can have some productive discussion. I don't hold out much hope, but prove me wrong and I'll be pleased.

In filthy evil sin,
Belial

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I want to know everything
I want to be everywhere
I want to fuck everyone in the world
I want to do something that matters

Wow! That was all quite a read and very interesting. As a Christian myself I want to show the whole scripture that has been mentioned here.


New Living Translation
Mat 7:1 "Stop judging others, and you will not be judged.
Mat 7:2 For others will treat you as you treat them.* Whatever measure you use in judging others, it will be used to measure how you are judged.
Mat 7:3 And why worry about a speck in your friend's eye* when you have a log in your own?
Mat 7:4 How can you think of saying, `Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,' when you can't see past the log in your own eye?
Mat 7:5 Hypocrite! First get rid of the log from your own eye; then perhaps you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend's eye.


I can appreciate the shock you have had in learning of your wife's "secret life." I believe you are hurt and in pain over what you consider a betrayal of her trust and what you hold sacred.

But have you asked yourself why did she not tell you? Why did she have a need to seek out others to share her life with.

I have been on the internet for a year now and a Pixie player for a little over a week. I have been on many message boards including a board I love that is strictly a conservative Christian board. As much as I love the people there I see this sort of thing everyday. Christians judging and playing the holier then thou game.

I have seen nothing but respect shown to myself here at Pixies. I have met some very kind and great people already. You need to remember that we are complex humans with needs and desires.

My husband does know I am a Pixie girl. He has stood over me many times while I play the smut games. I show him the pics and avatars. We have an amazing sex life and that is not why I am here.

I am here because I like people and I like to have fun. I like the innocent flirting and the meaningful friendships that one can have.

Do I tell my husband everything I do here or elsewhere. No, but that's my business. I could tell him all I do but I like to have something that is just mine. I know for a fact that I don't neglect my duties as a wife. I have actually become a better wife now that I have an outlet for expressing myself.

I suggest you learn to allow her to be herself and not force her into the role you believe she should fit into. It will only cause resentment and rebellion and that will hurt your marriage a lot more then her showing a few pics and having a little fun with like minded people.

OK my turn...though I doubt Mr (t)shindon you have the courage to read this. But as you would look at your wife's activities perhaps you miss the point that there maybe somethings missing in your marriage. And just possibly you are part of the missing element in the marriage--something brought your wife here.

You might think it as something simple as just "sin". But as I have read very closely your words I see much of the problem thousands of miles away. It seems to me that you have too many of life's answers. That if a person does X then the result is going to be Y. Well, life is not so simple--working 65 hours a day, providing and making a determined effort to putting in "quality time" to make the marriage work is your way of applying X in your life to get the Y result--sad! You as most men of the cloth should realize that the spirit behind all actions are all that matters.

And like a fool you are ignoring a very important element in your wife's life. It is for you to find not me or anyone else to find. But your wife has sought it here. If I where you, I would get off my holier then thou high horse and take a long look at myself and see what element that you are not providing for your wife. I hate to prodict your future but if you don't--sadly as it is human nature to do so, it is just possible that someone other then you will provide it to your wife; maybe not here at Pixies, but perhaps else where.

For mine I have done nothing more sinful with NaughtyAngel than be kind and friendly with her. I have shown her respect and congratulated her and wished both you and her on the birth of your child and shown a friends interest.

What is so sinful about the human body? Did not the Lord make us all? Much of the pain, suffering and intolerance on this earth is because people get obsessive obout religous ideals and make their own interpretation of the holy book(s). I am including all religions in this not just Christianity.

I have met some of the people on this site and have had sex with only one and we are engaged to be married. I did not meet these people for any immoral reasons but ones of friendship.

No one has taken anything from you, Jeff, you are caught up in your own hell fuelled by your own convictions that are far from forgiving and very judgemental. Where does evil spring from? Increasingly it is unearthed in priests and people of the cloth who spout the word of the lord and practise deceit and depravity behind that veneer of respectability.

I would bet that if you find that the people in this forum were actually more respectable morally than a similar group of ministers and holier than thou sunday christians.

I pray that your great love of Angela is true and that you do not let your dogma drag her into a life of unhappiness.

I would like to say:
"onyerselgrumble!"


Have just read though this thread and realised how much I missed not being here.
If you look for evil you will find it~~~~~~but same goes if you look for friendship and acceptance.
I have faith in my lord and in the knowledge that he loves me not inspite of what I am, but for all I am.
I have faith in my friends and in my family
But most of all, I have faith that one day love and kindness will be noticed above all the saddness and sorrow.
Hugs to you all! xxxxxx

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!

Tshindon, why don't you....


....aw, the hell with it.


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