01-30-2005, 08:44 PM
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I'm sure he is not an ogre but if he is going to post here he will be responsible for the content of his posts just as is everyone else. If he continues to ask for advice, he's going to continue to get some. Flaming will not be tolerated, regardless of the target. But if you piss members off (especially unwise to choose an entire sex) with your posts, then you have to accept the consequences of your actions. I agree that a pack mentality does occur but usually only when you anger the entire pack.
My hope is that he finds someone who he cherishes and will learn tons by exploring all the wonderful things there is to learn about his woman. I think the key is to slow down and look around. Don't be in such a hurry. If she is meant to be the person in his life then sex will be a natural by-product. I'm hoping as we all get to know him as well as you have we will find him someone who has new ideas to contribute. I'm not so old to think I can't learn something from everyone.
Mark, How old is your lady friend? Is she old enough to visit here?
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01-30-2005, 08:44 PM
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If your still here i obviously didnt jump to hard then
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01-30-2005, 08:49 PM
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If your still here i obviously didnt jump to hard then
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Don't flatter yourself Sharni. I am just as opinionated and tough as anyone. I choose not to let people run me off if I don't want to go. |
01-30-2005, 08:51 PM
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i wasnt flattering myself...i made a statement
Good for you!!!
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01-30-2005, 08:57 PM
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LOL.....thank you
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01-30-2005, 08:58 PM
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No problem...anytime
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01-30-2005, 09:14 PM
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The difference between you, Sharni, and others who responded, is that you have more insde information than what we have which did not come across or additional explanations given in any of his posts until a response was given by others. We all stated our opinons - albiet some more harsh than others - me being one. And I agree, had the information been worded differently or explained better my response may not have harsh. Had he asked and stated that this girl wanted the information and that it wasn't coming directly from him, the response probably would have been different. However, the thread wasn't worded in such a way that I would have interpreted it any differently than what information was given. Nor were his other threads. I did not fill in the "holes", I based my response on the information given and in the tone that the questions/information was given. If that information wasn't the full story then, like you said he is, he needs to be sorry for not filling us all fully. It isn't our responsibility to try to interpret anything in a manner other than which it is given.
With the right information - we who run in "packs" can be pretty friendly and accepting. All a newbie has to do is take the time to read the threads more and he/she will see that. Just as the "old-timers" have responsibilties, "newbies" do as well.
He needs to spend more time looking around and reading...
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01-30-2005, 09:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Cheyanne
With the right information - we who run in "packs" can be pretty friendly and accepting. All a newbie has to do is take the time to read the threads more and he/she will see that. Just as the "old-timers" have responsibilties, "newbies" do as well.
He needs to spend more time looking around and reading...
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Yep just what i told him...i let him know that it was not entirely the 'old timers' fault...and that what and how he posted came across badly..
But we still all need to remember that the written word is damned hard to get ya meaning across at times....an awful lot can be read into what you read...
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01-30-2005, 09:53 PM
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Ok all. Yes I am back. Had to go and pick up my son from school. First day and all. Now ok I screwed up with the start with the wording. But as sharni did say it can be a might hard to try and find the correct concept/text/meaning/words for what one is trying to say. Yep I did deserve to a point some of what was said. As I did say to Lil on one other occasion, I am new here and still learning the ropes. I know that isn't an excuse but it's fact.
Lil to answer you question about how old she is, she is in 20's. Me,well I'm 27. So I am not immature as it may come across in my threads. I do have a wonderful sense of humour if people actually can take the time to get to know me a bit in here.
If any of you have read my first story, you'll see some of that humour. I'm not perfect by no means, who is? So if any of what I put down in here got up wind of some of you then I am sorry. We all make mistakes so we should be able to redem ourselves.
Come say Hi to me and I'll say hi back. I don't bite......much.lol
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01-30-2005, 09:55 PM
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Maybe you should pass the URL here to your friend.
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01-30-2005, 10:00 PM
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I did. She is shy and reluctant to traverse into new water's. As I did say, she has only had one b/f her life so you can see a pattern in her behaviour.
I also had her try and talk with Sharni via msn, but I think that sharni had fallen asleep before hand.
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01-30-2005, 10:15 PM
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I can understand that! I think she might be surprised to find out that there are other members who are virgins. There is so much more to being sexual than just having sex.
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01-30-2005, 10:22 PM
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She is actually a very nice and lovely person. She is absolutely gorgeous or however you spell it. She is also a bit taller than me. She doesn't see herself as that. As she is asian she is very self aware because in her own words "most asian women are short. I'm a giant and asian men don't like tall girls." Well so she says. Who knows what asian men like? We are all different. I have a pic of her that I might post in this thread just so you can comment. I think she is fab.
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01-30-2005, 10:31 PM
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You'd need her expressed consent to post her pic.
I think the stereo-type of Asian's being shorter in stature is slowly being rethought. There is a 7' tall basketball player here in the states.
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01-30-2005, 10:42 PM
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I'll ask her. I don't think she'll mind too much.
Hey if everyone can comment on the pic then it might help to change how she sees herself.
Yeah I told her that too. I do taekwondo and one of the guys I used to train with was asian. He was slightly taller than me.
You pick up a women's mag and you can see sometimes the shots of the asian girls that they might have. Lucy Liu is a good example.
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