OK, I need some male opinions...what can a girl do to encourage some male attention? I think I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do...how overt do the signals have to be?

You walk up to the guy and say, "Nice shoes, want to fuck?" The shoe comment may confuse him, but hopefully he'll get the rest.

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OK...other than nice shoes...wanna fuck? Why do guys not understand the undressing them with your eyes and come hither smiles?

We do understand the undressing with the eyes things and come hither smiles.

But personally, I just don't ever seem to pick up on them, I pretty much need the nice shoes wanna fuck line before i know someones interested in me!

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its all fun and games till someone lose's a bollock!

Any other suggestions?

I think it comes down to, you have to be a wee bit forward... okay maybe you don't have to say, "nice shoes, wanna fuck," but men want clear signals. They get shot down all the time and eventually get gun shy. They don't want to misread a lasses signals and suffer embarrassment of such, so they overlook it thinking it's the guy behind them.

So maybe you ask him to dance, or say, "if I buy you a drink will you have a conversation with me." Something to show you have interest in him. Smile and touch him. Be clear. But maybe not quite blatant.

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I'll give it a shot...at least I figured out how to ease into the kiss... my friend and I actually did end up chatting up two guys, and when it was time to leave I suggested loudly to her that we should give them a kiss on the cheek...needless to say their heads turned at the last minute :P