Answer me a question. why do men put their penis as an avatar? being a man, i wouldn't want to just give everything up before the fun started. it is like reading the last page of a book first.

Ladies, do you like seeing this? wouldn't the experience be better if you had to "work" for the view maybe just a little?

other then letting everyone know what you have right away, what are the benifits? any?

just a thought.

What message does no avatar send people?

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You're also assuming it's THEIR penis...

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An AV kind of tells something about a person's personality, as to having to work to see a penis....... I don't think one little AV pic is gonna give away the whole package.

Unless it's Aqua's eye squirting AV!!!!!!!!

good point Lilith. i guess having no avatar doesn't send a very good message either. i'll have to come up with something.

Lazy?

The avatars I use for other forums are too large for this site or someone else has already used and I don't want to copy.

A penis is a part of who a guy is, just as my breast in my av is a part of who I am. It's not "the last page of a book" read first, but a small bit of the character description. If my goal is to know a person, one look at his penis will not tell me all his secrets.

Thanks for telling us what your av is, I couldn't make it out.

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Having No avatar could also say....well u got no pics. I got none at all lol. Well becides the crazy cruise one of me holding a sea turtle, the bill clinton halloween mask one that someone commented on saying i looked like a star trek character, and of course ones with my dick in my ex.

P.S. the dick in ex ones wont be shown due to their unflattering display or my piece due to camera angle.

Sounds like a cop-out. You can use an image you like instead of a pic. Go for it.

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Personally, like in real life...what's significant is not the penis itself, but what is being done with it. I vary between several AVs and recently saw this one and chose to put it up for awhile. It's not my penis. (If it was...I would still be there, sandwiched sweetly between the edge of her silky open-toe stockings and her soft yet strong foot. *swoon*)

Mine says "This guy kinda likes the idea of including women's feet on the very, very long list of things he finds sexy about women".

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The av is just a visual hook to remind (or warn) you who has posted a particular reply.

We choose avs that please us, and mostly not to try and snag a bit of intimacy.

Cocks, pussies (and various combinations of) are mood things.

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in my case, I was asked to, simple as that. I am not a big AV changer so its just stayed like that forever really.

Do folks think i should change it? Am i being lazy? Any suggestions?