I have recently found a wonderful lover. As I have been her on & off for years, many of you are aware that I have been celebate for years (8+) thus making this new lover of mine an unexpected wonderful addition to my life.

We met via Craigs list and have been together on a few very satisfying occassions. He has proven to be not only the most giving, attentive and loving man I have been with, but also the most adventurous. He is an incredible man who makes me feel sexy & safe and allows me to be a bit naughty. He has introduced me to bondage, spanking, and is has gently begun to prepare me for anal.

In the past, he participated in the swinging lifestyle. It is something he would like to do again and to be honest, I believe it is something I may be interested in sharing with him. I am definetly am interested in sharing a threesome or moresome experience with him as well.

I am looking for suggestions on how to move forward with the possibility of a 3-4 some and/swinging..

Carefully


























........ and enjoy the hell out of anything YOU are comfortable with.

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Same way you do with anything new that's different from what you're used to. Do your research. Talk with him, talk with people who have done it before, find out as much detail as you can about rules, any changes you'll have to make....etc. Then after much discussion and research have more discussion with your partner about what kind of multiple session you want first and who you want to try it with. Of course do not proceed with anything you are seriously uncomfortable with. It's one thing to "try anything once" and another to do something you really don't want to do. That goes for all involved.

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"BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Will he offer me his mouth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his teeth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his jaws? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Again, will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes! GIRL: Yes. BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Yes. BOY: I bet you say that to all the boys!" -Meatloaf

Oh I forgot to mention. Please document your experiments in the form of pictures and post them on Pixies so that we may share in the knowledge that you receive.

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"BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Will he offer me his mouth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his teeth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his jaws? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Again, will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes! GIRL: Yes. BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Yes. BOY: I bet you say that to all the boys!" -Meatloaf

Yeah! What he ^^^ just said last.

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Thanks LordSnow & PF

Fortunately, I have found a man who doesn't want me to do anything that I am not comfortable with. Over the last several years I have often fantasized about the possibility of MMF... and I have developed a fantasy regarding Gloryholes.. and it appears that both of these fantasies fit nicely with him..

I am at a loss however as to how to go about finding a suitable 3rd party or couple... I am not crazy about the possibility of the other party(ies) residing too nearby due to the risk of crossing paths with someone I may otherwise know. I do not have any interest in just randomly picking up a stranger for the important role of participant.. I wouldn't have the courage of asking any one (or couples) of friends that I have in my life.. Any suggestions as to how to go about locating someone who would fit our needs?

Like this;

I recommend you proceed.

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