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Well I say talk to him, I mean it has to be better than how I learned "All I needed to know about sex but was afraid to ask". I was at a friends house and he had hidden away (like most kids would adult magazines) instructional sex books and pamplets. No wonder I am emotionally scarred. Anyway its your call, my Mom was a nurse so you might think I would have heard the old tab A in Slot B instructional seminar, but I learned on my own. Don't make him do that. If you answer his questions, maybe he won't go try and find out on his own.

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Lilith---Let me give you things from a male perspective.Mothers want to think that their children are innocent.Actually;the last person that boys want to talk to them about sex is their mothers!
Granted;my mother was very religious(strict Catholic).I felt at ease;talking to my father;but not my mother;who thought that sex was only for procreation.When my mother;had the"Birds&
Bees"talk with me;I had already had sex!You are never ready to
have sex;before marriage;to your mother.I actually;used to say a
prayer;before sexual contact but that wasn't going to stop me!
Irish
P.S.I know;things are different now;but thats from a males point
of view.I'm still my mothers little boy and my daughters are in their 30s now!

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rather than trying to do the impossible (block his access to X sites) [trust me, he'll get smart enought to avoid detection and curious enough to ignore your NO's], i'd boomark some GOOD and INFORMATIVE sites (like sexuality.org) , so he'll be informed, and not think that 'girls & horses' [one of the 10000s of popups today] are a natural thing ...

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Thanks everyone all very valid ideas.

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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

HEY THERE LILITH,

I also have and 11 yr. old son, and a 7 yr. old son.
We had the "talk" while driving upstate. He asked the questions
dreaded by all moms......"Where do babies come from ? " and
"How do the babies get into the mommy's stomach?"

I said "The mommy and daddy have sex !!!" and tried to explain
what that was so as to satisify an 11 and a 7 yr. old curiosity. The 11 yr. old looked a little confused by the whole thing and little one said, and I quote EWWWWUUUUU!!!!!! Yuck !!!!!!!!!
"That's gross!!!!"

So, now should I be worried ??????

Anyway, since then and now a yr. older the 11 yr. old understands the definition and purpose of sex and the little one
still thinks it's "gross".

I wanted them to know the real deal from me, before they got
any information from their friends on the subject.

My advice.......Just talk to him!!!!

I know, I know, I coulda' said that in the first place, but there it is !!!

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PW~ When I tried to explain it all to him when he was younger I had the talk explaining eggs and sperms and intercourse.....when all finished I said"any questions?"

and he says, "these eggs do they look like a chicken's eggs???????"

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

how come all the submisive and/or bdsm-ish mothers don't want their children to have the same fun they do ???

and... something that happened to a long-time-ago girlfriend : she made a ... video of herself [just herself] (if we count out the dildos and beads and half the toy-store *grin*) , tape found by her mother, who watched it entirely (2 hours) WITH her [made her stay there , so she (the mother) wouldn't have to yell for the daughter if she would want to say anything.

I swear i have never seen a person that red in my life [i happened to 'bump' in in the middle of it].
Now i was extremly arroused by the whole thing, however, thinking it over, i don't think i would be able to do it (watch the tape) if my son/daughter [when i'll have any of them :P] would do it... but ... WOW!

++ for the ladies that keep their photos in the computer/house/videos... how would the kid react to se his sweet mummy 'in action' ??

....sorry to get off track... memories are soooo nice sometimes...

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To all parents here.I know that this doesn't have anything to do
with this thread&I know that kids can be annoying;when they're
young&you want to spend personal time with your S/O.Speaking
from experience;spend as much time as you can;with your
children;while they're young!All of a sudden;they're grown&out of
the house&in my case;have kids of their own!I know;I have four
grandkids now and you are just as protective(maybe;even more)
of them as you were with your own! Irish

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wonder if the little feller has developed a keen interest in computer science lately?

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