How many of you married ladies have entertained the idea of having a threesome? At what point in your marriage were you? I'm wondering also how it was brought up initially between you and your spouse. If you have had one, please comment if it was MMF or MFF. Any advice would be appreciated. If you don't want to post the reply, please email me.

I have always entertained the idea of having a threesome...Me and 2 males....or I would even go with another female to please my better half....BUT THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN...unless I get myself a new better half!

My man is conservative and shy...He keeps me to himself and wouldn't share me out to anyone! I have brought up the subject a few times in the past and it never got me anywhere....

Thank god for dreams.......

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"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

LoveDiva4u---I guess that I'll have to agree with you!I wouldn't share my wife with anyone.I have been told by more than one
person;that;even after the scars;from street fighting and racing
motorcycles;that I'm still fairly nice looking.My wife sometimes seems;to take me for granted.I remember;yrs. ago;when we were in a resturant and another;very good looking;woman was
making eye contact with me.My wife isn't the type to say Boo to
anyone.All of a sudden I heard"What are you looking at Bitch?"
It was my wife!It turned out that she was more possive then I
thought! Irish

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My husband and I are still pretty new to the marriage arena but have already discussed the possibilities of adding others to our play. The idea of group play turns me on very much. MMF, FFM, couples.. whatever. It's very erotic to me to imagine multiple people with lots of lust, touching, squeezing, caressing, kissing, sucking... you get the picture. I hope that my husband and I will be together forever, and have on more than one occasion mentioned to him the fact that anything either of us suggest won't be ruled out. Who knows what will interest us as we grow older. At this time though, I'm still enjoying having him to myself, and he can't imagine sharing me with another male. So for now, it's just fantasy. Hopefully a definite reality someday, no matter what the combo.

=:-)
Jenny

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OH.. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

"You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct
way, and the only way, it does not exist." ~Friedrich Nietzsche

Congratulations and I hope you and your husband stay married forever, also. If you think you are wanting to add a 3rd, you have to make you sure you are not only SECURE w/ your marriage, but you have to make sure you both secure about yourselves. If you are............GO FOR IT!!!.....lol. Have fun.

Ht.

that many people share but whose choppy waters few have successfully navigated. I _think_ (notice the emphasis on think) that I would be able to survive one episode of my wife sleeping with another man while I participate/look on. But we have such a good and loving relationship so why risk it for a fleeting moment of pleasure? For me, such ideas are better left to my fantasy world. Kudos to those who've been able to participate in threesomes and keep their relationship alive, though. They have my admiration and respect.

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This place is crazy...threads popping up all over the place...it's hard to keep up!

Like JennyD, my marriage is still pretty new, we haven't reached the 3yr mark yet. My husband and I have shared our fantasies, some of which included 3somes (or moresomes)...but for now at least (and expecially with a baby on the way) we're not quite ready to share for real . We'r still having way too much fun discovering all the infinate sexual possibilities of us!

Just wanted to say "Congrats!" on the impending arrival. Giving birth to our young uns was such special moment for the missus and I. Good Luck!

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Nubian--Thanks so much

My husband and I have been with another couple so you could say it was mff and mfm all at once. Do not even think about it unless you are very secure in your relationship. We had the flip side of what most people had... the couple we were with were not people most would consider attractive (it was the act not the people that turned us on) so instead of feeling jealous about th epossibility of me finding the other man more attractive than him or vice versa, it was more, "Please tell me you do not find that person attractive. Weve also noticed how diferent our tastes are in men and woman (we are both bi and before you men go OMG there is no male anal involvement as far as my husband is conserned, a blow jobs a blow job) anyway.... I am attracted to the exotic woman while he likes the girl next door types, and hes attracted to more clean cut guys while I like the macho bad boy kinda guys (funny thing is is I'm not the girl next door and hes not the macho bad boy... go figure).. So now instead of threesomes, we go it alone. I can have my gfs on the side, and he doesn't care about the 3some thing unless I give her more than he's getting.

Sorry to go on so much

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This place is crazy......But it's NOT hard to keep up!!

One would think.... with 4,653 members..this place would be just a big buzz of activity!!

Maybe we should start deleting the Silent posters as members!!!

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"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

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My husband and I have discussed it. I know its a big fantasy of his, but I'm not sure about it yet. I think it would have to be someone we knew and were comfortable with. We almost did it once but then it fell through. We haven't really discussed it much in a while.