Please be gentle with me, since this is a somewhat sensitive area (no pun intended).

Because of some medication I am taking, I am having erection problems - sometimes they don't come at all, sometimes they peter out (haha), and they virtually all die out completely seconds after I orgasm, which is usually pretty soon since we deliberately wait for 3-5 days between sessions for reasons that will become apparent below.

I am thinking of experimenting with a cock ring - I don't want to go for yet another medication (Viagra, Evitra) to fix the problem of one medication just yet.
A wrinkle in all this is that we are trying to get pregnant. Is there a cock ring that keeps the blood in the erectile tissue while still allowing for me to ejaculate into my gal?

Any feedback here on the board would be appreciated. Many thanks.

granted my cock ring experience has been somewhat limited to a couple times, but I believe all of them would allow you to ejaculate. They shouldn't fit THAT tight as to not allow it.

Personally, I would reconsider Viagra or alternative. I appreciate your not wanting to take another pill....but DAYUM it's worth it!

I've tried both.

I used viagra when I had stress related ED from my last job. It got the job done without any problems. Well, besides that annoying blue tinge to everything I looked at, but I was willing to put up with it for a boner. I understand and appreciate your desire to not introduce another medication to your body, but if your doc thinks it's ok...you might wanna check it out.

Cock rings are ok, but I've found them a little tough to work with. It's a cheap alternative and doesn't take much to figure out if they'll work for you or not, so try them first. If you're satisfied...you're good to go!

Good luck.

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Okay, now don't laugh at this question.

I bought an inexpensive cock ring yesterday, the kind that's a rubber tube with a slideable bead tightener called The Lasso (MANLY, no?). My question is, does it go over my cock or over my cock and balls together?

I've brought it into work with me, and since my office door has a lock I was going to experiment with it before taking it on a test run at home. So my plans are to cruise over to Pictures of Women and look at Lillith_82's thread (never failed to give me a raging hard-on yet) and try it out in various configurations without strangling myself.

Any advice? Thanks.

I had the best results with the ring around the base of my cock. I tried it around the very base (cock & balls) but wasn't as comfortable.

Good luck.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Thanks, Irish, but OUCH! It's pinching and pulling on my pubes somethin' terrible!

(Homer Simpson voice): "Lousy rubber tube. . . D'oh! AAAAGHHH, my pubes!!!"

By far the most unique problem solving session I've ever seen through here at the ole office, folks.

Pics of a 'cock cage'.

Don't know if its the same thing you've got but might help you figure yours out.

http://pixies-place.com:81/forums/s...&threadid=19683

Good Luck

Rick,

Take it from an avid cock-ring user, shave. It's much easier to use a cock ring comfortably is you shave your pubic hair, at least an inch or two around the base.

They're designed (most of them anyhow) to go around the whole package, behind your scrotum.

I use "jelly" rings, which I purchased from JT's Stockroom ($3 each, bought 3). One is rather light constriction, but I can add the other two if I need more.

If the problem is getting hard in the first place, and it sounds like you've got a chemical ED issue, do rethink the viagra. I was 19 when my doctor put me on zoloft (off it, now thankfully) and I was miserable for a month or two until I mustered up the courage to talk to him about it. My then girlfriend couldn't stop thanking me.

You might also try a vacuum pump; I use one regularly, just for enlargement and pleasure, but I do notice that my erections are firmer and fuller all the same. Female friends have commented that I feel a good bit thicker too.

If you really hate the idea of shaving, there is a cheap-o leather band kind with 3 little snaps on it so you can adjust. It goes around the whole shebang, and the boyfriend has reported it to be oh so much more comfy than the jelly ones.

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