Do you give and recieve?

Oral sex is a major topic here - how do I get it, how do I get my SO to perform, help me perform oral better, etc.

I'm interested in your thoughts and experiences. I personally love giving and receiving (as many of you wonderful pixies do) but I also know a lot of you aren't satisfied in this area.

You can select more than one choice in this poll.

I love it both ways, but if i had to choose, i would pick give every time

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omg...i luv to givie its ahuge turn on for me because i know his spots and i can getat them easily,,,,as iv drivivng down the highway....NOW THATS ATURN ON.

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Receiving is nice, I needn´t do anything, just enjoy - With giving (although I would like) I have not yet made really good experiences, I can´t stand the taste very much and the tongue becomes tired much too quickly.

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i love to give as well as receive, although can be distracting but i find thier is nothing like a beautiful set of thighs around my head while those gorgeous lips are wrapped my other head

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If I HAD to choose.. I would choose to give everytime.

Don't get me wrong.. I do enjoy receiving.. BUT I have very limited experience doing so. Of all the partners I have had in my past, they tended to be more into receiving themselves and less into pleasuring me...

Another factor.. trust. For me personally... and I don't know why.. but receiving orally places me in (my mind) the most vulnerable of positions.. In order for me to REALLY be enjoy it.. I have to be able to relax and give up control completely.. and that isn't something I have found easy to do with just any man..

I love receiving as well as giving. Sadly, I have not received often.

Prior to S/O #1 Only one or two b/f's performed oral on me. Truthfully, the very first time it happened I was totally shocked!! I had never had a guy even attempt to put his mouth "down there!" He didn't give me a chance to resist and OMG!!! I LOVED IT!! Unfortunately, we broke up soon afterwards.

S/O #1 used has never given. I guess maybe his feelings are kinda similar to GermanSteve's. He never really has said why he won't, I'm just assuming he finds it distasteful or gross.

S/O #2 is very willing and seems to enjoy it as much as I do.

As for giving.......I LOVE GIVING!! I love to give of myself to bring another pleasure. And it also gives me a wonderful, sexy feeling of power....that *I* can take my man from completely soft to rock hard to intercourse to release to total satisfaction...all by myself. WOW!! What a feeling!!

S/O #1 has never, ever asked or demanded that I give. I've always done it because I enjoy it! It was almost more for my own pleasure than his. Due to some personal and medical issues I haven't been 'allowed' to give for quite some time. I'm hoping this situation will change in the not too distant future.

S/O #2 I've given a few times. I assume he enjoyed it.....he didn't complain afterward.....

I don't know how common this opinion is, but I don't like receiving at the same time I'm trying to give. I find it very distracting. I love to concentrate all my attention on my partner when I'm giving.

I didn't mean to write a book........sorry I was so long-winded.

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Jenna, I think you make a very good point on why some women are uncomfortable with receiving oral, I hope you one day find the trust in someone to receive a mind blowing orgasm from someone giving you the best oral sex you ever had

I like to give more than receive to be honest but only because...hmm well I don't think I am ready to go into that yet lol sorry I don't feel comfortable enough talking about it on a public board. But like Sharniqua said, there is nothing like having a squirming parnter underneath you moaning, groaning, her hips bucking uncontrollably off the sheets...yum, that is why I love to give oral.

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When I mentioned giving and getting, I didn't mean for it to be 69 but it's interesting that some of you find it distracting Now that I think of it, when I'm participating in 69, one of us usually gets distracted at a high point.

69 need I say more

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Love both giving and recieving oral, was married for 9yrs and never knew what I was missing out on as my ex disliked oral sex, but now with my new SO Wombat "WOW" the most amazing oral experiences are being had to the point of me actually passing out.. yummo..

Like the song says ;
"I like it both ways",

mmmmmmmmm,

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I am definitely more of a receiver than a giver. My poor husband.

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