i recently found out that a co-worker had a sexual dream about me. althought i didnt find it out from her. we both have been pretty flirty with each other in the past and i have started to fall for this girl. i have no idea where she stands as likeing me or what not. i have no idea if her flirtyness is just work fun or real flirting. my question to all is what should i do about this? keep things going the way they are, or try to take things to the nexted level what do you all think?

Go for it ask her out, you will never know if you don't ask, start off with something fairly tame thou or you might scare her off..lol

I agree, ask her out and see what develops. Dont be too pushy just go out and enjoy her company and be your normal self.

I would agree with both the fine gentlemen above ~ ask her out, keep it nice & simple and just see what happens! The worst thing that can happen that way is you find out she doesn't fancy you, the best....... well, that's up to you!

DM

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Ditto! Since you work together, ask her if she wants to go for a coffee or lunch. Sounds like it's in the bag!

ask her out for lunch at first if it goes well ask her to have dinner and maybe a movie at your place. you could prob even make the dinner for her for more points. if anything will happen it would prob happen during a nice romantic or scary moive at your place. asking for a massage always works for me too. that how i bag em