maybe i can get as many patrons as possible to participate in this...

i cannot seem to get through to one of my closest friends that there is nothing 'wrong' with masturbation or their sexuality. it seems that they understand what i'm saying, but not 'trusting' it somehow. i'm pretty good with words and supporting friends, but its getting difficult to convince them to be comfortable with their own sexuality.

so, i came up with this bright idea ... maybe as many people who wish to can post their own ideas/opinions in sort of first-person speaking as if stating to someone else what they do, how much the do it/enjoy it and that there is nothing wrong with it!

then i can send my friend directly to this forum as a way to make them feel better, less alone and maybe finally understand that countless people enjoy their bodies and their sexuality without guilt or shame or any of the garbage that comes from the stigmas of society!

this is a close friend of mine and i really want to help, but coming strictly from a friend, i fear it probably seems like "you're just saying that because you're trying to help me as a friend" (though i openly admitted COUNTLESS times my own open sexuality).

so what do you say... help me help someone who desparately needs (and wants, i truly believe) to be helped?

thanks!

The human body is one of the most incredible things ever built. In fact, the only possibly contender for this title is the Mazda RX-7, and even that comes second to the wonder of the human body.

No matter what you do, you cannot in complete fullness know and understand your own body and and your sexuality without masturbation. It simply cannot be done.

Masturbation is where I explore my fantasies, question my turn-ons and turn-offs, explore my fetishes. Masturbation is time alone, to spend by myself doing something for myself. Or, it is something to be enjoyed with a partner - to watch them in pleasure, to see what turns him or her on, to help and assist them.

Masturbation is stress relief, closure on the day just before I drift off to sleep. It's a sexual release. It feels good!

That's what it comes down to, in the end: it feels good, it doesn't hurt anyone, it helps you get to sleep, it helps you understand what you like and what feels good for you - how are you going to give instructions to a partner if you haven't found what REALLY gets you going?

As for sexuality - just be honest, with yourself and others. Whatever your sexuality, unless it involves children or unwanted force, it's perfectly ok!
Embrace your sexuality, be proud of who you are.

CasperTG

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You know, Blackadder, for me socks are like sex. Tons of it about and I never seem to get any.

My Photos:
https://imgur.com/a/80hiRdm

You said that so well, CasperTG.

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Communication is the key.

I guess that my signature states my feeling on the matter. It is my own conclusions and saying. That is why I don’t change it to one of the many other quotations available.

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Thanks BlueSwede!

And PF - I've always loved your sig, congratulations! I never realised it was self-thought up! I like it!

CasperTG

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You know, Blackadder, for me socks are like sex. Tons of it about and I never seem to get any.

My Photos:
https://imgur.com/a/80hiRdm