hey people

been awhile since i msged, but i thought id get some imput on something im dealing with.

my current girlfriend's ex had a cock that she claims was 8inches long. now, im not a small man, but i aint 8inches, as im sure many other guys out at this site will understand. fact is, im closer to 6.5-7inches, which i know isnt bad or small or anything like that. she says in regular or average, which is fine with her and that she couldnt care less.

she says im better at it, last longer, and that she likes me more anyways, but shes such a good person that she'd say that either way - true or untrue, though ive talked to mutual friends and theyve said the same things, so i think shes being honest (she was so far, right?!)

anyways, i was just wondering if any of guys out there have had to deal with this situation, or something similar. if any ladies have any comments or anything at all to say too, please by all means post!

thanks everyone!

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this is pixies place, after all! haha

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Well, I'm not a guy so I can't really give you the kind of information you are looking for, but .... after looking at your pics .... I'd say you should take her word for it. Doesn't look like you have anything to worry about. :lust:

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thanks a lot....ya, i hope ure right

i trust her anyways, so whatever. i guess its not a HUGE deal

bad pun? eugh.

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One can never win at the comparison game. I would like to think that each person brings something uniquely different to a relationship which make comparisons moot. As long as she's happy, and it sounds like she is, that's all that matters.

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I just gotta say... no offense intended towards your GF.. but what the HELL was she thinkin? Even tellin you that.. sorry.. but in my own opinion.. some things are better left untold.. comparison to an ex is one such thing.

Secondly... not the quantity that is important.. it is the quality.. not to say that with EXTREME differences (I don't consider an inch extreme) there might be sensational differences, but usually such differences can be compensated by experience and technique.

Just my opinion.. but if she tells you that she is happy with the way things are.. then believe her.

thanks alot everyone

Nubian - excellent point my friend and a great, near poetic way to look at it

Lilth - this is true, and what everyone is telling me

Jennaflower - it is true...there were things about my ex's that i dared not mention even at our most honest momment, but thinking back now, id rather know then be lied to. then again, ignorance is bliss, right? and also, maybe ure right...a bigger difference might cause sensational differnce, but maybe u cant even tell an inch, when it is in you? who knows... any thoughts? CAN u tell?

that goes out to anyone btw!

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I Must admit i know what you mean! im only 6.5'' or is it 6.5' i cant remember the whole ' thing! anyway i digress! Dude its quite offputting when your pumping away and all of a sudden you think is she wishing it was her ex's or as big as his? ive had similar situ's and it hard but all you gotta do is say "Shes with me for my personality the other guy must be a bigger dick outside of the bed aswell" (Unless its a good mate) and smile to yourself knowing your the better Person!

Ciao for now!

I think Lilith is sincere about talent beating out size. However, ask her if she is enticed by a really big package. Ask her if the "girls" talk about the "big" guys in whispers and grins. Ask her if when she watches her group sex porn, is she turned on by a big guy plundering some fair maiden onscreen. You may not be surprised.

I don't know what brought up the subject but its a shame your gf talks about her ex's penis size. What is she thinking? I am about 8" and had a gf that told me about guys with really big ones she had enjoyed. It's all relative. It was tough on my ego till I put it in perspective and sent her on her way. You don't need to put with insensitivity anymore than the ladies do. Best of luck.

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Big is nice...but I don't interview my male friends by asking them their penis size. It's the whole package that counts...and take care not to obsess about the ex too much -- lest you begin to lose your focus in other areas.

As you like her for who she is -- I'm guessing oyu're not comparing her weight or breast size to your exs -- allow her to show you the same courtesy.

Good luck and lighten up!

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That's pretty much the sort of thing that causes confusion with me, and I suspect, other guys. I even see it here, sometimes. I see it said that "size doesn't matter", but then see the reactions to pics of big weapons. There's some inconsistency there.

Oh for crying out loud.

Any man who thinks that women don't get the contradiction between what someone makes comments about and what they really value, well, frankly isn't paying attention. It's something women have to cope with all the time. It's something EVERYONE has to cope with. Welcome to the wonderful world of contridiction that is humanity. What we say we want is rarely what we really want, and it's even less likely to be what we know we need.

Big dicks are nice. Thick dicks are nice. Dicks with that perfect curve that rubs me just right are nice. Dicks that I fit perfectly between my lips and the back of my throat are wonderful. Smootht dicks, veiny dicks. Line 'em up. It's all different, and wonderful.

But I tell you now, every guy I've ever been with has been a hell of a lot more than just a dick with legs. Incredible kisses, strong hands, great legs, and even one guy who had a perfect V shaped back, one who could sing me nearly into an orgasm, and another who could make me laugh no matter what. And all those things contributed to how I felt, and even how good the sex was.

So no, in the grand scheme of things, the size of a guy's dick doesn't matter. The best sex of my life was NOT with the guy with the biggest dick.

But, with that said, I would NEVER mess with the love of my life's head by comparing him with my exes. On any dimension. But certainly not that one, because like ALL guys...he worries about it when he shouldn't. By the same rule, however, I appreciate that I don't have to hear about how gorgeous his old gf's hair was...or how thin her waist was, or how long her legs were, or how perfect her ass looked. That's just curtesy.

If I did meet her, though, and got to make all those comparisons for myself...I hope I'd be able to get over them. Because I know I'm more than the sum of my parts...and that the most important things I bring to any bed are in my heart and mind.

Sorry, I know it's more than my two cents. But I hate to see any guy selling themselves short over something that really doesn't matter. I'll go away now.

My girlfriend told me she'd been with someone with an 8 inch dick and it bugged me a little but..men. so what really. She also told me, the first time she ever had an orgasm was with me. As I remember, the first time she came was intense, it was like she was posessed, so I don't think she was trying to stroke my ego.

In your FACE, big dicks! hehe.

Her sexual past bugs me a little, and for a time, good God I couldn't get it off my mind, and this wasn't long ago. I've just let go now, all it does is make you un-happy and cause tension on your relationship.

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