Does size matter to women that much??? if u have benn with a guy for a month and u see his package... will it make a diffrence if its samll or big???

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aww the typical male problem, lol Size doesn't matter chap, I've known plenty of stacked guys who have no idea how to do anything in bed lol, take what ya got and make it work for ya , thats what matters, you'll impress the ladies just fine by letting them know your really into them, it takes alot more than a nice package to make someone feel good lol


that is unless your used to those porno stories where every girl is stacked like a pornstar and the guys are lucky to have something under 9 inchs LMAO , and they say porn isn't realisitic

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Welcum to Pixies HotNHeavy! This is an age old question..........and you can check the Pixies archive to see what I mean......but........

To me........size doesn't matter as long as you can handle you own ego! Big and thick is nice..........but average and thin or thick and short..........or whatever.........if YOU are secure with you......a woman can tell that you are! Don't think with your cock..........think with your heart and your cock will follow!

Understand? I mean......If you ask this question too many times......well......I see a boot in your future!

*****It's not the size of the ship......but the motion in the ocean*****

BTW hun.......as you get older......it doesn't grow bigger! Let's say you are 18 (I'm making a point........he could be ya know!).........Most human bodies grow till the age of 18-21 so you are almost done growing! Now you have to learn to live with what you have! Make the best of it babe! All women have fanfuckintastic memories! Make their memories good ones!

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size isn't an issue~~~~it's the "smart ass" behind it that counts!

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!

Of course it won't matter honey.

And even if a guy isn't the world's most fantastic lover on the first night, most women aren't likely to dump him for it. Most of us look beyond those kind of superficialities and if we like the guy and he treats us right that's all that counts.

After all, have you ever dumped a woman because on closer inspection you've decided her breasts aren't big enough?????? I very much doubt it.

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M Y - N A U G H T Y - P I C T U R E S ! !

Just because you're perfect doesn't mean you have to rub it in! ha ha

As for you, hot&heavy, master what you have and you will be fine.

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We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

i love all of you here, but your advice can be misleading. We all here are open minded and loving and size doesn't matter to (most of?) the women here. But in reality it does matter to some women. No woman is the same some women like size, some women like girth, some women like the motion in the ocean, and some women don't care because they are madly in love with their partner.

Don't worry about the stuff you can't change...its just a waste of your time and energy. This question might as well be "does my height matter?"... you are not going to get any taller or shorter, so for cryin' out loud, why obsess over it?!?

As far as I'm concerned, size doesn't matter. My hubby is average
size, and he does it for me every time.

Just my two cents worth !!!

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Only with the heart can one see rightly.

Of course it matters - but then so do at least twenty other things and frankly this issue needs to get put in perspective.

I have been making love and having great sex with the same woman monogamously for fifteen years - Does she have the best tits I ever saw? - no. Does she have the best ass I ever had? Maybe. Does she have the best legs? No - Does she have the best pussy? Objectively probably not, but subjectively without a doubt.

Has she ever needed to ask me any of these things? No. And why? Because actions speak louder than words and do I have the best cock she has ever had? Hell who cares. I see her getting off on mine - do I want to insist that every other sexual encounter she may have had, has to have been crap. Please guys - sure there are size queens - but then there are alcoholics, train spotters and all sorts of other singularly obsessed peolple.

There you go - I have had my rant.

If you feel able to take it in and rationalise then take a look at

www.penissizedebate.com

but don't blame me.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

Well Vigil, I visited the site, and I thought I could deal with it.

I couldn't.

Right now I feel as if pursuing any sort of relationship is utterly pointless because any partner I manage to get (yes, I know that's optimism) will want something I can't give them.

Maybe I should just give up and make sure my genes don't propogate.

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Dear Belial

I have to admit that I find that site incredibly interesting as a piece of modern social e culture and I can see people studying it in years to come.

BUT

It remains, though very well presented, one person's thesis.

And the fundamental error is the premise that one single type of female sexual pleasure is the sole basis of any successful relationship. This is farcicly wrong, it is the basis for a single successful sexual female pleasure for some women.

I wish I was clever enough on my PC to do one of those flow charts that would put this one obsessive issue into the wider context of the hundreds of things that people need to be satisfied. Not that it is my place to take up the feminist banner, but I would be insulted to have a man reduce all my aspirations and needs from life and relationships to the relative size of my partner's cock.

I have a very close friend who blurted out at a dinner party when she was a bit drunk that her husband's 4 inch cock was perfect for her. I don't think that he was very pleased at her outburst, but when I had a joke with her about saying this later, she insisted and went into more detail than I needed to know that for her it was genuinely true.

Personally I prefer issues to be faced rather than brushed under the carpet and what this site tells me is that one small result of the sexual revolution is that a certain number of a certain type of woman for a variety of psychological and physical reasons have a preference for a certain size of cock and the need to tell everyone.

My advice is to recognise this and more importantly for your own wellbeing, to recognise them before they fuck you up for all the other wonderful women in the world who want so much more that a good man is able to give.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

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I really don't understand why any attempts for guys to support each other on what is to us a major issue always attracts subtle or not so subtle censorship.

If a young woman wrote in concerned that young men might find her ugly, or her ass too fat, or her breasts too small or too big, you would all be incredibly supportive.

Big Dan makes the point well - so please don't patronise us.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

I'd love to say that of course size matters but I suspect it doesn't really matter at all. Most women aren't that superfical and most men aren't carrying around tree trunks in their trunks *LOL*

It's the whole package rather than a part that'll win the day - but a one night stand might be different altogether. *S*

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