Live Chat

Go Back   Pixies Place Forums > Sex Talk > General Chat
User Name
Password


Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Rate Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 11-17-2003, 03:35 PM
Steph's Avatar
Steph Steph is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: T.O.
Posts: 20,828
lessons you've learned through experience

So, as some of my Pixie buds know . . . I was geared up for a job interview downtown today. I left with loads of time and my SO's directions written down (I have no sense of direction). I got off the street car with almost 30 minutes to spare and crossed the street to take the bus but quckly noticed the buses only run during rush hour! I hobbled as fast as I could the six blocks but alas, was late for the interview and didn't get a chance to plead my case to them.

I'm pretty disappointed but shit happens. So! My lessons learned today:

1. ALWAYS do a dry run of the route for the interview.
2. ALWAYS carry some cash (if I had a few bucks on me I could have hailed a cab but my money was in one of my other purses).

To get me out of my funk, anyone else have some disappointing experiences, silver lining type stories?

Or better yet, anyone want to hire me to work at a nonprofit as a communications asst./web writer?
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 11-17-2003, 03:48 PM
Lilith's Avatar
Lilith Lilith is offline
♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
 
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: on top of it all
Posts: 50,568
Send a message via Yahoo to Lilith
I am soooo sorry Steph! Must be a better job coming up!

I once took a job that I was entirely unqualified for and in shock that I had been offerred. The money was great too considering it was teaching. Well it was for a new emerging charter school and they were supposed to get portables etc. 2 weeks into school we had 12 teachers, 300 kids, 1 toilet, no furniture at all, no books, and none ordered, no paper, and most of the staff was less qualified than I was. It was awful. All but 3 teachers left, including 2 principals. I learned to never take a job based on what the company's goals are, wait til you see it in action.
__________________

The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§

~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 11-17-2003, 03:55 PM
WildIrish's Avatar
WildIrish WildIrish is offline
is not this trim anymore!
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
Posts: 21,709
I had a dentist appointment at 5:45 last Wednesday, and the receptionist called to remind me of my 6:00 appointment. I assumed (because it was a new dentist) that they wanted me there 15 minutes early to fill out paperwork. Now, I had already filled out paperwork and sent it in, so naturally I assumed the my cleaning was to take place at 6:00.

I rushed out of my office with ten minutes to spare and made the trip in 9 minutes flat. I jumped out of my car and ran up to the building to discover in horror that I was at the wrong building! I was at the opposite end of town. Not the worst thing in the world, as we live in a tiny, podunk, cow town. But running late sucks. I screached up to the correct building at 6:06 and ran inside, looking like a stark raving lunatic I'm sure, to find out that my appointment actually was for 5:45 and that I was SOL. Whoopie! Now I have to take time off from work to go, because the next after work opening is in October of 2065 or something. Grrrrrrrr!

So, I hope you feel better cause now I'm all aggravated!
__________________
Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.


For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 11-17-2003, 03:55 PM
Lilith's Avatar
Lilith Lilith is offline
♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
 
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: on top of it all
Posts: 50,568
Send a message via Yahoo to Lilith
I must be the queen of learning from her mistakes... When you have to install 800 sq feet of flooring in your house, buy it all at one time. It's bad when you have to rip up 2 rooms/ $1500 worth of flooring because they no longer make the kind you need to finish the last room
__________________

The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§

~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 11-17-2003, 04:17 PM
Steph's Avatar
Steph Steph is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: T.O.
Posts: 20,828
Thanks, Lilith ~ I consoled myself with the "it wasn't meant to be" pep talk . . .

I hope to stay out of the flooring discussion ~ laying carpet, flooring ~ those headaches are scary!
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 11-17-2003, 06:13 PM
LixyChick's Avatar
LixyChick LixyChick is offline
Everybody Stretch!
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Pa. USA
Posts: 11,637
Oh Steph! Hope I'm not rehashing your "damn it, this day sucked" mood......but I'm so sorry to hear about your lousy day! Sounds like a typical Monday to me......but then...that's me!

Speaking of shitty days.......I was off to an interview once (many moons ago) and it was a job that I wasn't all that qualified for but I really wanted......so I did the dry run the day before.....and the day of the interview I dressed to the nines (all business like) and, knowing I won't be on time for my own funeral, I left the house a half hour earlier than I truly needed to......and as I was walking across the grass to get to the walk to go up to the entrance.......I stepped in a wad of dog shit (on a hot summer day) and nearly fell on my ass as I slid to the walk. My shoes had those teeny, tiny ridges on the bottom (to prevent slipping) and I couldn't, for the life of me, find a stick that wouldn't keep from breaking as I tried to scrape the poop from between the ridges! I finally scraped and rubbed the shoe on the grass to my satisfaction (not really, but I had to go) and I went to the interview. I left early enough to get there on time (with time to spare, even) and I was still late by the time I got the poop off my shoe! Some people told me (as I didn't know if I got the job after the late interview) that stepping in dog shit was good luck. I said, "Yeah, good luck that people don't keep elephants for pets"! BTW.....I didn't get the job! Blahhhhh!

I agree with Lil.....that there must be another (better) job just around the corner that you need to be available for! Life's Lesson? Watch out for the poop!
__________________
Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 11-17-2003, 06:20 PM
Steph's Avatar
Steph Steph is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: T.O.
Posts: 20,828
LOL Leave it to Lixy to put in in poospective, er perspective!
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 11-17-2003, 06:27 PM
LixyChick's Avatar
LixyChick LixyChick is offline
Everybody Stretch!
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Pa. USA
Posts: 11,637
LOL! I hope that's a smile I'm imagining on ya!
__________________
Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 11-17-2003, 06:34 PM
Steph's Avatar
Steph Steph is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: T.O.
Posts: 20,828
If there's anyone I can count on to make me smile, it's you!

group grope/hug!!
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 11-18-2003, 01:38 AM
mcjim623 mcjim623 is offline
Registered User
 
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Florida
Posts: 147
Sadly, I have learned that people tend to get what they deserve, if it is bad, and they don't get what they should, if it is good.

Of course, I could fix all of this once they elect me Emperor of the World.

I would be a lovable, benign dick-tator...


Jim
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 11-18-2003, 04:35 AM
dancingrugger's Avatar
dancingrugger dancingrugger is offline
Fill This Space
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: MD
Posts: 1,673
Send a message via AIM to dancingrugger Send a message via Yahoo to dancingrugger
Ever run into someone you're sure you know, but can't for the life of you remember why? Yeah it sucks when that person is the interviewer and at the end of the interview he has the courtsey to tell you that he was a one-night stand at a drunken high school party that you proceeded to get sick all over (too much beer) & then leave him there in the laundry room w/his clothes in a pile of puke ... yeah didn't get that job ... Granted this situation was probably much more my own fault than any of your stories but come on, teenagers do crazy things right? lol, can't we just forgive & forget.

Lesson of the day: don't vomit on naked strangers.
__________________
To know that you do not know is the best.
To pretend to know when you do not know is a disease.
Lao-tzu


I am prepared to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter.
Sir Winston Churchill

There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 11-18-2003, 06:25 AM
Lilith's Avatar
Lilith Lilith is offline
♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
 
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: on top of it all
Posts: 50,568
Send a message via Yahoo to Lilith
<~~~~ is writing that one down in her little book of things to avoid
__________________

The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§

~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old 11-18-2003, 06:39 AM
LixyChick's Avatar
LixyChick LixyChick is offline
Everybody Stretch!
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Pa. USA
Posts: 11,637
Yikes!

Poop and puke in the same thread!

I'm thinkin.....this is stinkin!

LOL!

*heading off to the shower!*
__________________
Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old 11-18-2003, 06:47 AM
Oldfart's Avatar
Oldfart Oldfart is offline
Registered User
 
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: North Australia
Posts: 17,687
steph

Tough luck.

Doors open, doors close, all all that ......
__________________
Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating
Reply With Quote
  #15  
Old 11-18-2003, 06:48 AM
Bilbo's Avatar
Bilbo Bilbo is offline
Unusually Curious
 
Join Date: May 2001
Location: Queensland,Australia
Posts: 1,484
Steph

Really soory to hear that but if you wish use my mentality, (Debatable as it is), If they did not want you it is their loose,

Although I feel the worst that can happen is when you get a rejection like one I got saying that I was over Qualified for the position!

DUH!
__________________
Enjoy yourself!
Enjoy me!

Behind me is a Woman rolling her eye's!

The only opinion about me that matters is the one I have of myself
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:46 AM.


Powered by: vBulletin Version 3.0.10
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.