I asked this question a long time ago and want to ask it again. A male friend of mine insists that no matter how good the pussy, as he puts it, and now matter how great the sex is w/that person, all long-time partners will eventually get tired of eating, fucking, fingering, etc. the same pussy and will want to graze in other pastures--if only to discover or be reminded that the pussy at home is actually pretty damned good after all. Is this true? Do all long-term monogamous partners end up wanting to have sex w/others?

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I'm not sure what "old pussy & cock" is. I've never seen any in the junk yard.

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Very interesting question BlueSwede! If I could presume to speak for my husband (beings this seems to be directed to the male sex) I would say.......he would say......Yes and No.

I think he would have a go with another woman to "get something new" if he knew he had my official okie dokie.....but I doubt he would go off on his own in search of greener pastures. I'm not being naive here....I just know my husband....and he wouldn't be adverse to being with another woman.....but he'd love it if I were included in the equation. If the situation arose for him to have another and I wasn't there......I don't think he would do it just to do it.

Now...as I said...I am presuming to speak for him....and I could ask him (tomorrow when he wakes)......but I'm nearly 100% positive I am right about this. But.........I did say "nearly 100%"..........so there is a chance I could be wrong!

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~Thomas Dewar~

Have gone to the greener pastures and dam it was good. Wish I did not have to would like to have this at home

The grass is always greener, no matter what the subject. Better house, better car, better clothes, better sex.

From MY experience; the grass almost always LOOKS greener, and the sex may even BE better....... but for most of us, there is SO much more to lose!!

Then the question becomes ~ is it WORTH it??

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

I second DM's statements. There are times when having sex with someone else sounds very appealing -- it's easy to get into a rut in your relationship and want something that's just different to what you've been experiencing.

However, at the end of the day...everyone needs someone to come home to. You know, the person who makes all the BS in life worthwhile. And that person isn't likely to be your fling...

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

If the grass is greener on the other side of the fence...



it's time to water your lawn!


That having been said, I'd love to hop the fence and plow that pasture like a John Deere! That doesn't mean I'm tired of my own yard though.

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We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I love the way you put that WI.

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You just like it cause I talk about tractors. I know how you country girls are. ha ha

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

The pastures look greener but they are so complicated, (speaking from experience) And I hate sneaking. And Lixy, I think the temptation to have extracarriclular activites applies to both sexes.

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Susan

For myself, no. I side with the water the grass clan. I wouldn't have that desire myself. One woman is more than sufficient. My side of the fence suits me just fine.

Yet, since I own a tractor of a different color, (mine is blue). I would readily support a partner who felt the freedom to sample the fertilizers in use across the fence.

Are you offering to let me plow the neighbor's field with your tractor?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

its much better to have loads of different people because that way you are happy.

variety is the spice of life

No. Not quite. The neighbor's field is not mine to offer. You would need to speak to them. However, if you wish to borrow the tractor, that is a different question.