ok, so today in probably just over 4 hours from now, im going to an orgy (4sum) with my gf, one of my friends and one of her friends. i kinda have mixed feelings about this though. im not sure if i want to see my gf get fucked, but at the same time, thinking about 4 people being naked like that gets me really horny. Anyone have any advice?

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"savvy?"
"...but you have heard of me!"
"...try not to do anything.....stupid!"

-Captain Jack Sparrow

If anyone is not fully into this, it is best to NOT do it. If you aren't sure now, the impact of seeing it happen could have a very bad impact on the relationship.

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Skyler's got it pegged. People have open relationships, and do just fine....but it takes the right sort of person. If you're not sure yet, you're not ready.

Better to call the thing off now and deal with the embarrassment of backing out then to discover afterwards that you can't handle what happened.

If you're looking for a middle of the road option, you could try some mutual voyerism. No cross couple touching....but everyone gets to see and possibly verbally interact with each other?

In any case, before the clothes come off...I'd definately have some serious talk time with everyone involved and figure out what the house rules are gonna be.

Good luck!

thats some great advice, and essentially thats what happened...although the pants stayed on. it sucked! but there'll be a next time without the other guy.

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"savvy?"
"...but you have heard of me!"
"...try not to do anything.....stupid!"

-Captain Jack Sparrow

Skyler said it all...............

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