Hey all im a new face (well always read the posts but never bothered to register) this question is for all you ladies out there. i need to know if what im doing is wrong or not.
Well im 18 rite now but dnt let that fool you people thimnk im way older 4 my age well fact of the matter is that I cannot make my gf orgasm, and ive been tearing my hair out because is it me or is it her. Ive had experiences of making a female orgasm before by just real close stimulation. but for her ive tried every thing and it still can not seem to work. We talk about sex and every thing we r close and open. every thing is there in the relation ship apart from that help pls. Tell mee the secret!!!!!!!

First off wtf is a SCREAT?

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LMAO I think he means secret.

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Oh fuck! :grin:

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And I'm going to be a teacher, I should have figure that one out!

How are you stimulating her...fingering, oral, intercourse?

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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Oh gawd you got me laughing so hard i got tears in my eyes.

I'd say to an 18 year old......... Don't try to rub the paint off the barn.

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Oh fuck just made a fool outa my self didnt i?? on my 1st post ahhh well, Ive done it all. Fingering ive found the spot she likes best and i use that to my advantage when i really wonna excite her.
Oral: I could eat her out for hours on end coz i love doing it and she loves it too. i make circular motions around her clit and then lick her clit whilst fingering, or i just go out and give her a tounging action.
Intercourse we can go for ages and ages untill our bodies are sweating coz im more determined to make her cum than i am 4 me, if u know what i mean. and maybe im inadaquate but is 8inches enough??

OMG!!! ROTFLMAOPMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like CGT said...keep it gentle.

And, as you say, your communication level is good - perhaps investing in an egg or bullet for her and let her experiment on her own at first and then introduce it into your lovemaking sessions. Sometimes part of not being able to orgasm isn't in the stimulation but rather in the mind- she may be holding back because the sensation is so very new to her. Be patient with her too...she needs to get to know her own body and responses without feeling your frustration at her lack of orgasm...

Also, not all women orgasm by penetration alone but need additional stimulation on their clit. It really doesn't matter if you are 4 inches or 8 so don't worry about your size.

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Maybe you need to quit bragging and start asking what feels good to her.

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seriously i dnt think im bragging im very nieve and i really dont know what is right or wrong as i said before communication is what we have best and what i do is what she wants me to do. I feel that i dont know ne thing and I read other posts alot so i just want to find another way to approach the situation like cheyanne kindly told me

I would suggest she get herself off for you and show you how she does it.

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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

ok thanks but she does that but she cnt make her self either. so r they things i can say or do to improve the situation??

Nope...sounds like she is going to have to get this one sorted herself. Best thing you can do is just love her and be patient and not make a big deal about it.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

thanks alot, its me loving her that makes me want to do it soo bad coz i really want to make her happy. I dont make soo much of a big deal about it but i know at the back of her mind she does

a vibrator will help her. Tell her to use it on her clit and to RELAX. I think she may be self conscious if you watched. I know would if it was my first time. I'm sorry if you think I wasn't being kind but when a guy starts tellin me how big his dick is thats a turnoff for me.

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