Ok, i've been reading around the site and talking to a few people and it got me thinking...
how good were you really at giving oral when you first started??

1. when you first did oral on anyone? (you can say age if you want,
but i really meen like in a relationship or just experimentation kinda deal)
2. were you nervous?
3. how did you learn to do it? (ie. just trial and errer, or did you read up on it )
4. and NOW are you very confident in your abilities???

and anything else you'd like to add!



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Well I wasn't out of high school and I can't remember the first time, but I know it was not as eventful as it is now.

Practice makes perfect, and reading others little tricks helps too!!!!!!!!!!

but when i discovered how incredibly attuned i could be to her growing pleasure through the feeling, taste, and scent it soon became my very favorite part of lovemaking! I always watched those porn videos of the one woman serially fellating a dozen men and wondered why they didn't make videos of one man servicing large numbers of women and why they never told me where I might audition to be in one!

1. when you first did oral on anyone?
Freshman year, I attempted (and failed) to do it once back when I hardly knew what I was supposed to do or anything about it.

2. were you nervous?
I was more nervous about what I was going to do after then I was at the time. It wasn't like I had a clue what I was supposed to do.

3. how did you learn to do it?
Tha was actually about the time I found pixies and I also went to about.com and searched for Cunalingus and found some good stuff. Also downloaded a video online.

4. and NOW are you very confident in your abilities???
You tell me pet....am I any good

haha... master you know what i think about your abilities!

holy shit... you are amazing!!!

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never hurts to get a bit Playful1-ce every now and again

...till the wheels fall off

...sometimes you gotta go through something to get to something...

1. when you first did oral on anyone? I was dating my husband


2. were you nervous? yep


3. how did you learn to do it? trial and error and asking him alot of questions about what he likes and doesn't like


4. and NOW are you very confident in your abilities??? nope...Mr. Lil does not have a hair-trigger when it comes to oral and he is the only man I have ever given oral to so I can never be sure that every man would like my style. That being said...I am confident given time and gobs and gobs and gobs & gobs of practice I could do a good job because I'm not afraid to communicate.

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1. when you first did oral on anyone? (you can say age if you want,
but i really mean like in a relationship or just experimentation kinda deal)
I was not in a relationship really *L*

2. were you nervous?
Not in the slightest nervous...curious definately

3. how did you learn to do it? (ie. just trial and errer, or did you read up on it )
Trial & Error and by listening to signals given off

4. and NOW are you very confident in your abilities???
Yep

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1. when you first did oral on anyone? (you can say age if you want,
but i really meen like in a relationship or just experimentation kinda deal)

I think I was 12/13 ~~ it seemed like the most natural thing in the world to do...I am very orally fixated and always have been.

2. were you nervous?

Not really.....Never been squeamish or nervous about oral sex

3. how did you learn to do it? (ie. just trial and errer, or did you read up on it )

Trial and error, and like Lil...lots of communication. I've actually never read a "manual" that helped with fellatio

4. and NOW are you very confident in your abilities???

Yes....although Mr. Osuche doesn't have a hair trigger either, I've gotten compliments from others which have made me certain that *he* is the anomoly

Actually.....all men are different. I change my technique every time, depending on what the guy likes. I don't think there is a manual....and I also believe that some men would believe my technique sucks (no pun intended)....just depending on their preference.

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well if anyone needs a guinea pig to practice on i'm right here

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I know when I first did oral.. I was quite young... I have no idea how young..
really just experimentation..

But.. Then I went to boarding school.. (all boys).. and I virtually lived in the library.. and whats a horny bookworm guy to do?? But read like hell..

The librarians did their best to "weed out" the most lascivious books.... but not all of them

Jean Auel's books were quite a favourite..

I think I did pretty well, considering I had no one to practice on.

1. when you first did oral on anyone?

I was very young and very naive...and did a "pinky swear" with my best friend that we would never give a "blow job" to any man! We thought it was ewwwwwwwwww! But in truth, I didn't have the slightest idea how to do it. I took it literally...as in "blow" job, and couldn't imagine why blowing on a penis was sexually exciting. I had never seen it done and the fear of the unknown had it's grip on me. I was still a vaginal virgin and things in the relationship were heating up past the point of hand jobs. [He] taught me the correct way to blow him...because I sucked at it (pardon the pun). But I was "in love" and wanted to please him. So I practiced and practiced till I got it right!

2. were you nervous?

I sat on his lap and could feel the familiarity of his hand trying to push my head down to his lap. I knew "this" time was going to be it...and I nearly cried and threw up simultaneously! I heard a slight snicker from him when I first began and then he began to talk to me in a whisper (because his parents were upstairs) and it calmed me down. I was shaking like a leaf and he knew it, but coaxed me to continue.

3. how did you learn to do it?

Pure trial and error!

4. and NOW are you very confident in your abilities?

Oh my YES! I've had lots of practice since that first time...and have been told I have a certain technique that would drive any man wild (his words...not mine)!

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i was maybe 15 when i gave my first, was in wha ti thought was a serious relationship ( he thought otherwise LMAO) and i was a bit nervous, dont think i was to good the first time but i grew into what i thought was being good at it , i used to luv it and get all kinds of great reactions from my guys, NOW i am not so confident , jeeping is extremly hard to get off w a BJ and i think it may be me doing something wrong, he says its not and thats its him but ive never had probs so i worry now and dont enjoy it near as much .

~nikki

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1st attempt I chickened out with another guy.

Seond attempt with girlie she was wild for it and I loved doing it.

I listened to what they want or go by groans of pleasure!! Spouse not always keen, but 9/10 she gets a huge O from it.

Recently did it with another guy and he considered me to be a seasoned professional cock-sucker.

Wildeye

The first time I performed cunnilingus was with my wife. I knew going into it that I would enjoy it, having seen many educational videos. Just watching it hits me. I must've been ok, because she did climax, and later she admitted that she was totally suprised (and very glad) that I wasn't squeamish and was so enthusiastic about doing it. At this point, I'm pretty confident in my ability, but it would be nice to get a second opinion...for research purposes, of course.

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never hurts to get a bit Playful1-ce every now and again

...till the wheels fall off

...sometimes you gotta go through something to get to something...