So who is more dominant in bed? I'm not talking specifically about bondage or anything but overall in the entire sexual act, from iniating it, to foreplay, to finishing it, who leads?

I know for me I don't have that "alpha-male" type of attitude so I prefer my g/f to lead more often whenever we get it on, but there are times I have to awake from my slumber

Mr. Lil says currently he is but that has not always been the case.

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Well usually it's me. I have had the odd one or two that wanted to take charge.

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I prefer the male to be more dominant of course, but sometimes I take charge too.

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It's a BOY!!

I've always been the dominant one -- in and outside the bedroom. Either I select the men that way (likely) or....LMAO....It's just too much trouble to be dominant around me.

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Him tied down is my absolute favorite... and seems to be his as well

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Hmmmm I think it's a toss up

Yep I bet it is!!!!^^^^

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Yep I bet it is!!!^^^^

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I am definatley more dominant in bed. Although I would love for it to be him. I tell him I want him to take more control but it rarely happens. Hmmmm here's to the next 7 1/2 yrs of getting it right! :devilish:

Barb

Uhhhhh...that would be me.

Hey, I have to be the boss somewhere! ha ha

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haha that would be him... hence the name 'pet'

love you hunny!! *muah!*

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never hurts to get a bit Playful1-ce every now and again

...till the wheels fall off

...sometimes you gotta go through something to get to something...

That would be me.......... although it would be a nice twist to have her initiate occasionally

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Mostly him but we are a good balance and I have no problem telling him what I want and how much more of it I want.

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