Have you ever done something like this? Something that causes you to hang on the precipice? I told myself that I would base my return to my position next year, on an administrative decision that I felt was not going to go the way I felt it should. I was convinced that if they followed through on what I was originally told was their decision I would not be able to work with them.

Today they called us in, and to my most pleasant surprise, decided to go the route I felt was more appropriate.

As much as I love the Lost Boys I think I really would have left.

Have you ever had that type of resolve? Did making the decision based on another's actions pay off or did you have to follow through?

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
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I have, and I need more time to post it.


But I will return.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

I always let people know what I think, and where I think they should spend their time.

If people don't listen, I leave at some point after that. For me, the job is less important than my self respect.


((((Lil))))

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I am thinking of this myself at the moment, after 14 years.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

Whips in the classroom?
Detention in the dungeon?

Wow! That's our mod!

Actually for the first time ever, I was pleading for leniency.

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Lilith, please describe for us your exact position. After all, it's important to get the details accurate.

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On the kinkometer, my kink measures as a sine wave.

Teacher of Lost Boys

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

I ended up walking from a long term job that I loved because of one of those "If this happens/doesn't happen, then I will stay/leave" situations. Problem was, although I stood up for what I felt was my right, in the long run, I found out that it didn't make any difference that I left over the issue. Former co workers said that the supervisor, and her supervisor didn't change the way things were being done and even eventually lost another long term employee over it.

My self-respect was better, albeit temporarily, for it. Eventually I found another job in the same field of work and was better for it.

Would I do it again? If I knew for sure that it would affect real change for everyones wellbeing then yes. If it happened like my old job, then no, I would have stuck around and gotten intouch with the higher ups, like the CEO to see what change could be implemented.

It is a tough one when you are right in the midst of it. (((Lilith)))

As a matter of fact, I just did exactly that with the band...I told the drummer it wasn't fun anymore, & I was quitting...specifically, it had to do with the behavior of one member... they had a meeting to try to work things out, which it was hoped I attend, but I boycotted it (partly because I'm not comfortable with confrontation, partly because I was unsure of the actual time of the meeting)...drummer called my afterward, to make sure I wasn't still holding out, he said things seemed to worked out pretty well, & that I may have made a better statement by not being there...I decided to go back the next week, & things have improved a bit...

Quite the liberating feeling, of course this was not really a danger of financial loss like quitting a real job would be, but exhilerating all the same...

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Plug me into somethin'

If the theory does not conform to the facts, then the facts must be discarded.

No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

I sure do like the thought of making Lilith plead for leniency.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.