Divot's query got me thinking about facials. I am curious why men would want to give one? What is the appeal?

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Beats me, I prefer the stimulation of contact continuing throughout orgasm.

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^^^ What he said.

I could, however, see the attraction of them were the recipient really excited about it. To see someone turned on by having made you climax is really amazing, and if she's rubbing your penis around her mouth...stirring the cumshot and moaning a little...ok, I need to stop now.

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Could be a Dominance thing. Generally to give a facial the male would be above the recipient of the facial.

But I've heard it's really good for the skin, stops wrinkles and aging, also prevents peeling, and dries up warts... so if anyone needs perfect skin....

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I think it's just because us guys are under the impression that you gals think it's hot. No different from squirting on your boobs or on your tummy, etc. Suggest you ask the other ladies in here what they think about it. I have never personally tried it but, like OF & Irish, the idea doesn't do anything for me.

does nothing for me.

Oh, Lilith is thinking again. Now we're all in trouble.

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I think I've said before, facials are mostly a porn thing, personally I'm not into seeing it sprayed all over, in her eyes, up her nose, in her hair, etc...that's just a mess that someone needs a towel to clean up with. Now, OTOH, if I get to cum in her mouth, & she has chosen not to swallow it all (or any at all), & there's that little chin omelette dribbling down...

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I would only be into it if my partner was into it. I don't think I've ever given a facial to a woman.

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My patner prefers my tummy or mouth.

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Never given one intentionally. There have been a couple of times when a partner would want me to cum in her mouth (and since that apparently isn't in my make-up to accomplish from oral sex) and a couple of spurts have gotten away from me as I stroked myself to orgasm. And yes, I was a good boy and "cleaned it up" for her.

If I'm not going to cum inside of my partner, I prefer on her tummy or the small of her back. Actually, I prefer to be a bit inside and then sort of finish right there at the entrance. Makes for a yummy cooling down time. That's another story for another time though.

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I have read that facials have this psycological factor kink of the male "marking his territory" and that both partners get off on it for different reasons....he, for the act of spewing his jizz all over her (or his) face and she, for the tactile sense of feeling his cum on her (or his) skin, her face as target area making it that much more intimate.

I can sort of understand that. But I much, much prefer my orgasms inside a woman's pussy or mouth. The few times I tried pulling out to spew my load on her body, the shock of feeling my hands on my sticky cock rather than the warmth of her interior, just decreased my sensitivity like, zaaaaaam! And my climaxes weren't so great at all. That's why when I watch a porn and the guys always pull out to jerk off over the woman's face...and then moan or wail like someone just shot them in the ass with an elephant gun during their nutt, I wanna call bullshit on them.

If I were to shoot on her face, it'd have to be from me pulling my pud from start to finish. If a woman takes me inside of her, I don't wanna leave.

But visually, sometimes it's exciting to see cum on a body or face, and the more pretty the body or face, the nastier the kink effect becomes. I like seeing the trajectory angles of the streams of cum, seeing how far it shot out and landed and the clumps and curdy, gooey viscosity of it.

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The few times I've done it it was a turn on knowing that she's actually enjoying (or at least doing a damned good job acting like she's enjoying) my semen, and not repulsed by it. I mean I enjoy her bodily fluids I love having a messy face from going down on her so it's nice when she at least acts like she's enjoying mine.

I guess I've never actually put any thought into why I feel the desire to do so.

I've given a couple, mostly unintentionally, but as has been commented on, they are a "standard" in porn, so I'm sure that plays a part into why. Part also is the "marking of territory" too. Part could be the dominance factor, but also, there ARE a few women that like them.

I met one, one time, at band.........no wait that was a movie.

I have to admit that I really get turned on by the sight of cum dripping down a woman's chin, and onto her upper chest. But then I also like cuming on her tummy, or backside, depending on the position we are in.

Well.... For me, there is something about the idea that she is willing to/wants to do it. Simply that. Same as on the tits, or back or mouth etc..

I can't explain why I like to come on her tits, but I do know that I like too. And those times when she jerks me off right there..well...it's just mentally stimulating too. At least that is as near as I can explain it.