I haven't been feeling very sexy lately...in fact, I've been feeling decidedly un-sexy.

When you feel this way, what do you do to get your grooooooove back? I'm looking for tips and suggestions.

Cum-ons might also work.

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Hi!
I observe a pair of factors in my moments like yours: The depth of the funk I'm enduring, and;
The amount of cash available.
If I'm totally broke it's a longer walk or a very short road outing - or none.
With some funds it could still be a long walk but the higher possibility of a road trip. Either way I manage to put a bit of time behind me with the funk left back at the start point, I hope! A fair porn fix occasionally helps - if it's with a friend.

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not sure, usually just wait it out. but tell me what is a cum-on?

Osuche,

You've always been a good friend and someone I "liked" flirting with and I mean this sincerely.

From what I know of you your intelligence is sexy, your brains are incredible and well I've seen pictures and you are stunning!

How in the world you can't find a way to see yourself as sexy, I just can't fathom!

Have you considered leaving him sexy notes or an "I want you" email to him to peak his interest, and hope that he will return the favor?

That's one of the things I am struggling with...for me, sexiness comes from within. So Mr Osuche telling me I am sexy does very little for me. However, if I can "feel" sexy then the admiring glances from my husband or other men merely confirm what I already feel.


((((Nut))))) - I like flirting with you too. I am sure this stage will pass (at some point) and we'll get back to the flirting games.

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I have had times where I feel less than sexy too. I usually have to work at getting over it. I read a lot of erotica and try to set up a scenario that is not part of the norm. I go out of my way to try something different.

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Osuche

I know that I didn't really answer your question but I know what I suggested would work on me!

Good luck in getting thru your doldrums!

Maybe hearing it from someone other than Mr Osuche (you know an objective observer type) might help you progress past this stage.

Oh.. I just realized you said "TIPS and suggestions" not "TRIPS and suggestions".

I was gonna tell you to take a trip to Seattle.

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Getting a little "me" time & a little hardcore usually works for me. If the HC doesn't do it, a really nasty fantasy might trip me back over the edge. Getting the "me" time is usually the biggest obstacle, tho, & I suspect that's the case for most of the peeps here as well.

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Prescription:

1) Go to SFO
2) Board airplane
3) Go to a fancy dinner with rabbit. Dress sexy.
4) Accept a flood of sincere compliments
5) Return to SFO happy.

God, I love you guys.

Thank you.

/me runs to check frequent flier miles

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

See if you have enough points to join the mile-high club.

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Plug me into somethin'

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No good deed ever goes unpunished

Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

Try flashing someone.

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