I had two ex's who were into rough sex (simulated rape) and gasping. I was just wondering....How many women are into that sort of thing? Is this a common occurence. I wasn't comfortable with it but I went along with them.

rough sex is my favorite kind. one of my biggest fantasies revolves around rape. as far as i know, it's more common than people think.

Um....*whew*

Rough sex, not rape is a fantasy of mine...but I'm not sure how common either of them are.

By rough I think I mean energetic.

Or athletic maybe.

No

Rough sex is usually a dominance thing (or game) and as such,

not mything.

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If that's the definition of rough sex then I DO just mean athletic, energetic, frantic, HAVE-to-do-it-NOW sex.


Sorry to go off topic there.....

now back to your regularly scheduled program.

RandyGal

Just my take on it.

Chase the opinion.

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I know it will come as a huge surprise to you all but I have a thing for sexual power struggles A beast once said it to me best,"Someone really ought to hold you down". Rape not really, but let's just say non-compliance maybe.......

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I have to agree with the others here..rape I am not into..but like Lilith said...."Non-compliance" makes for great sex!!!!

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Well, tho I enjoy some noncompliance.... Rape is not a fantasy for me since a regrettable incident when I was 13.....

Always,
Kyttn

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I am sooo sorry Bama.....nobody should go through that!!!!

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I have to say that full rape is NOT for me as I feel sorry for any and all that have gone through that..
But I do love it when my man is rough.. There was this one time we went to a movie and we both seemed on edge, like i guess just pissy at eachother. So he stopped at the store got us some beer, told me to drink one while he drove home. After a few mins i noticed that we werent going home and was wondering where we were goin. He drove around for about 30mins or so while i drank 2 beers.
All the sudden he drove up this street where they were building new houses and pulled over. Got out went to my side of the door and took me out of the car. Bent me over the hood of the car and just took me right there..
Didnt say anything, just made me go where he wanted to go. It was so great being that i was pissy I didnt want to be touched or kissed or anything I just wanted rough sex... It was risky as I was wearing jeans so they were tugged around my ankles, I could feel the cool air all around me. and it was right out in the open I swear people could see us no matter where they were oh how wonderfull that was..... sorry was that to much info ROFL....

Sar

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Sar - you never give too much info lmao I always want to her more ..... For me it all depends on the mood and sometimes I am in the mood to be bad and defiant and have it rough.

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I am not sure this is an answer to your question hon.
I do like being "overpowered", but only by other women.
The nearest thing to a rape fantasy I have is my cherished "gangbang" fantasy, which includes being taken by both men and women.


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I have no problem being rough with a partner but I have to draw the line at rape fantasy. For one thing I don't find the idea of it exciting at all and I wouldn't be comfortable enough to do it even if a partner asked me to. I can understand how some find it a great way to change up the sex lineup but it isn't for me.

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