I cannot fucking believe it, after all the stress the fucking thing is back...I am despairing, she is taking it well, but I am so depressed - any one have experience of recurring breast lumps? In the same place?

VERY DOWN and WRETCHED

Andrew AKA WILDEYE

No experience with it Wildeye,but I wish you all the best and hope things turn out well for you.

Keep your head up, Andrew. You have the power to do the best for your wife. Use your chance.
Everything else happening is what´s called life and destiny.
I wish you two all the best.

Stefan

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Thanks for the support. I really appreciate your quick responses and words..it has just blown me out of the water. I cannot contemplate life without her, sorry really fucked up and down.

From the very first moment I saw her I knew I loved her, more than spirit, more than sex - she is the love of all my lives. Yes Sex is incredible and physically we connect 100% but more so we connect mentally and are in tune.

Andrew AKA Wildeye feeling like fucking weepy eye.

Know a lot of folks that have been through this but no personal experience. I know your wife will need your strength and support and be sure to tell her she's got our prayers. Best of luck, it's amazing all they can do today!

Your very welcome. Stay strong and stay in love.

I hope and pray for the best possible outcome for this. You and
your wife are both in my prayers. She needs you to be strong
for her. You have all of our prayers and support behind you to
help you do that. Just keep doing what your doing, letting her
know how much you love her.

Love is a very powerful ally, she is very fortunate to have someone who loves her so much!!!!!

Keep the faith !!!

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I have had 2 lumps removed (both non-magilant, thank God!)and have about 16 more right now. Just because there is a lump does not necessarily mean that it is cancer. Some women have somthing called fibrocysts(sp?). Wish you both the best. Please post and keep us up to date.

Wildeye...

As lilcksckr just pointed out.. the existence of such lumps is not necessarily worst case scenerio. I will keep both of you in my thoughts.. and send good thoughts your way... please keep us posted.. we are here... as you tread water until good results are verified...

HUGS.

Andrew~ My mom has had 4 surgeries all in the same exact area.............all benign but docs have insisted on alllllll the surgeries. Ask that should she have to have it removed, could they insert tags that stay in her breast that help them to measure the growth of future lumps. Would save unecessary surgery later....

Hugs and positive energy being sent your way to envelope you both

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Wildeye---My wifes;oldest sister;had a double masectomy(sp)Her
;long time;husband;and 2 grown sons;gave her all the support in
the world.I know;that it is devestating;but give her as much love;
as you can!Let her know that she means more too you;then a body part.I'm not trying to tell you what to do;just trying to help!
Good Luck! Irish

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Thanks for all the support - Irish your great and lil and PuusyWillow (cute name), lilcsker (?) and Jennaflower (great stories. Sorry about emotional blast - let imagination get the better - unfortunately spouse's grand parents except one died from the big C, and spouse is 100% smoker, it's not a body part I'd love her anyway, that is not important compared to "Her" and the essential "her" - love the whole package - even never putting on lids, never throwing out cotton buds and forgetting to wear knockers.

Thanks folks - Boomshanka!!

WILDEYE AKA Andrew

hope things go well for you Andrew. Good Luck.

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~I love Nikki~

Andrew, you may feel you need advice, but it is you who is an example to us all. The love you share with your wife is truly beautiful, and that can't be changed no matter what the future brings.

Sounds to me like you are doing everything right, so just know that we're here when you need us for support and friendship.


Admiringly,

AK

x

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I hope everything works out ok for you all..........

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