Its not just women who fake orgasms you know.....

I too have the 'last a while syndrome' and my g/f also feels very insecure about it. Sometimes I tell her its OK and I don't need to come, sometimes I come, sometimes I don't ... but I make damn sure she does.

She is pissed I don't come in her mouth ... only a Brazilian woman got me to once or twice but she was exceptional at fellatio. Now my gf uses her hand and then mouth to finish if she wants me that way.....

some of its about communication ... sometimes .... but also the more I masterbate the longer it takes me to come. If I masterbate soon before sex I can determine whether or not to come and when... and the second time is often better.