Justin (((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) i know its never easy when it happens and its never a good idea to do. all i can say is yall need to talk. if u luv her and she luvs u yall can work tho it. but u gotta be willing to have all the painfull conversations that will come frm talking. ive been tempted to cheat on my hubby so many times, usually after a fight or when hes been so involed w work that im gettin ignored alot. the only reason i havnt has been i cant justify an affair just because im attention greedy and i dont want to see his face when he finds out. it wud break me , just htat face relizing whats been happening. i told him once that i was tempted and told him the reasoning behind it , that i was lonley and wanted to feel wanted again. it helped us work tho before nething cud happen and he started payin more attention but it was a painfull convo that i really didnt want to have but knew if i didnt i wud. i guess my point is talk. if yall clam up around each other get a 3rd party involved , counsler, clergy, close friend that neutral (although friends are rarly neutral. ) the 3rd parties help alot, they let u put things in perspective and keep the fighting downso u can actually talk. i do hope things get better , just let her know u luv her still. cuz im sure she is as torn up as u are. i am when i just think about it.