When I was young I made a list -- it would have been impossible for anyone to meet all the criteria, because somethings absolutely cancelled each other out (that was when I was very young!)
When I was in my late 20's I made another list, not really written down, but still it was a list I made and have carried it in my head ever since .... but having never written it down, I found it very difficult to sit down and do so .... strange how our minds work isn't it ....
Strong - emotionally, spiritually, mentally, personally ... and physically wouldn't be bad either.
Caring - about me, about my inner circle, about things that really matter (in my opinion)
Integrity (I think this really goes with the Strong, but it's very important to me)
That certain spark that kind of just sets my teeth (and various other parts) (and his as well) all atingle.
Beyond that, for me, just about everything else is negotiable.
