Hold hands when walking down the street together, even after several years of marriage.

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Nubian

I love the holding hands idea, Nubian. That's one of my favorite things I try to do often. The way I look at it, you can't divorce someone you hold hands with all the time.

Going on 17 years now and things are still new and fresh! Different rooms......different positions (some I think I should patent because I never saw em in the Kama Sutra.....lol!). I never thought it possible.......but I am NOT bored to date!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

So many wonderful suggestions!

Quit making love in the same old place! Be creative!

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

We like to go on dates. After 40 years of marriage, I'll ask my wife out on a date ... dinner and movie or a visit to a local dinner theatre. It's fun and builds for a night of intimacy.

A favorite (although a little expensive) is a weekend at a fantasy motel. (The rooms are done in various themes.)

Oh Dicksbro, we had a theme hotel where I lived in Chicago...SOOOO much fun!

As for bringing the spice back into a relationship, opt for anything off the beaten vanilla path as Lilith mentioned.
There is nothing more erotic that when my husband treats me as his "pet". He handcuffs me, prepares my bath and pampers me; sponging me down, loofahing my body, brushing my hair while my hands are clasp over my head. I adore sitting on the floor, returning the favor by rubbing his feet. I am submissive so anything I am told to do is erotic, lol.

Then there's always surfing the sexual internet together; ordering erotica. Two words for you....LIQUID LATEX. Yummy. Find toys/foods that you can explore each others sexuality with. Try to make each day a little spicy. I hate having my husband see me "uncared for". I always try to dress the part, taking a great deal of time with my appearance. It makes the difference. Just thought I'd add my two cents worth.

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SHE WAS SOOOOO BLONDE.........she had a shirt that said TGIF, which she thought stood for 'Tits Go In Front.'

Cheyanne

Is bang on, communication is the key - talk about your feelings in a none pressurising way.

research has proved that guys who help in the home get 50% more sex and those little things like talking about emotions, a simple hug or opening a car door - all work.

Reading Erotica is good, as is underwear, as are toys - toys are best bought together! Ditto underwear.

Have fun

Wildeye