This thread will die quickly but here goes:

I was dating a guy I was completely unhappy with sexually and intellectually last year and then a new buck came to town.

My doubts about the first guy clouded my judgment . . . the second guy was wonderful - sexually open, etc. I told him about Pixies and he decided to use all the search engines to read my posts and that's how he realized I was dating him and the other guy at once! I felt sooooooooo bad explaining it to him.

Has anyone else faced similar situations? Your S/O has read something here that was like a journal entry but it wasn't?