Hi all,
I am a gay man whose bi-boyfriend wants me to join him with a girl. I have no problem with his having sex with women, I love sex and so does he, this is something I can not give him..so what's the big deal right? I feel I am into different things but I am so unsure about sex with a woman. I have had Bj's from women and enjoyed them but I don't know. I believe that if it gets your dick hard..enjoy it..but I am scared. Any thoughts?Am I afraid that I am not gay? Is that weird?

redhed40.....what if you liked fucking a woman? Does that mean you don't like fucking a man? Of course it doesn't. Does it mean you are bi? Not to me. If you only want to have loving intimate relationships with men then I believe you are gay by today's views. To me it's all just a title...sex and love are two very seperate things sometimes.

Also...I am going to give you the same advice I would to anyone whose man was pressuring them to enter into a 3 way...if you are not comfortable then say no and mean it!

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hi redhead,

i don't think it's weird, not at all, but i do think it's *totally* possible you're afraid you're not gay. some people feel afraid they *are* gay, i'm sure, so why shouldn't you be allowed to feel this way, too. especially about anything that may change who you are. and i don't mean who you are for other people, i mean who you are as yourself. you've lived your life a certain way for (i don't know) how long and now you feel that may change. it's enough to make anyone afraid. ((hgs))

it doesn't sound like your bf is pressuring you, (is he?) so chew on it for a while. maybe you'll realize that bieng gay or straight is irrelevant, it's whether or not you can ...like lil said...seperate the title from the person.

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I want to thank you all for your advice! It is awesome to be able to come to pixies and just say what is on my mind! I have some things to think about,you guys are the best!
redhed!