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So recently I and my partner were messing around and I gave him a blow job( Which I usually enjoy) however to my suprize As he climaxed I had an orgasm is this usual? and question # 2 how so you tell your partner just how rough and kinky you like it with out feeling oh i dunno a little embarressed! I wonder if something iss wrong with me or is it normal

Unusual, yes. To climax with no vaginal or clitoral stimulation, is extremely rare. Guess you are a fortunate one!

Open communication is critical in any relationship but in one involving any form of bdsm play it is even more so. Perhaps you could start by introducing him to stories of scenes you find hot and within your limits.

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From what I have heard most women need direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm, so an orgasm with no contact whatsoever would be considered unusual.

Many people like rough and/or kinky sex. You should sit down with your partner and discuss each other's sexual needs/wants/desires. Don't be embarrassed, just be matter of fact. I like this or I really enjoy this. Communication is key... who knows, maybe your partner likes it rough and kinky too.

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Thank you both for your advice I just wondered sometimes if something was off with me lol thanks

With my experience in talking to people on this site, we're all a little off.......okay some are way off, but it's all good kinky fun.

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HA HA LOL Well I am bi-sexual and I have been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years now!!!! We have had a few times we invited ppl in to join us and I really thought i was crazy when i orgasmed while giving our friend a bj!!!!!! I has taken me three years to be comfortable with my Kink as some may call it with my GF she and i have really clicked since i talked with her but some of my fantasies are a lil rougher than she may like i mean she is fine with tieing me down just basics but i like to be sub and she doesnt know how to be a true dom lol

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As for exploring and sharing mutual pleasures together, what Lil said is spot on. Open and comfortable communications with your special partner is the key to fulfilling intimacy. Not all points on the compass can be followed at once. Take the time to explore and learn each other and the places you want to visit together.

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Originally Posted by PantyFanatic what Lil said is spot on.

ha ha ha ha ha. For posterity.

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