Guys and girls I love to have anal sex with my GF and we tried it twice but she sez she hates it. I tried everything but she wont accept and i need pressure her pussy is not tight compared to her ass and i love to be held tight.

What can i do to convince about ana and/or is there a way to make her pussy tighter so that she wont have to do what she hates.

Thanks alot

On another thread, it was pointed out that many women tighten up quite nicely after you give them an orgasm or two from oral sex... works for me, try going down on her... certainly won't hurt, and it might be just the ticket...

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Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

My ex-girlfriend loved anal sex, but only after we worked up to it by me using my tongue first, then finger, then (must use a condom for lubrication) the full thing. Easiest if you lie on your side rather than traditional doggie style, which generally hurts apparently!

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Bobz, 32, UK

"We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams" - Willy Wonka

Again the question, I like *** and how do I get my g/f who does

not like it to get into it?

If she's not into it, you take the chance of losing her by forcing

her or making her feel worthless if she won't accede.

Check what's important before you push too far.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

She may not hate it only 'cause it is painful to her, hon. She might dislike it for other reasons. Talk to her, and maybe just drop it. It isn't for every woman.


WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

I believe that the one thing women need more than anything is to trust their partner with anal sex. If it hurts her pull out and give her a cuddle even if she tells you to carry on. It may take years before she's willing to go all the way (if at all) but she'll never relax if you pressure her or fail to gain her trust.

if they dont like anal some times you have to live with it
ther are even some gay guys that dont do it